Friday, December 14, 2007

Erasing Memories

I regard the movie Eternal sunshine of Spotless Mind as a ridiculous movie which could obviously have been made better by the Director and the scriptwriter except for two things:
1. Kate Winslet (of course ;) )
2. Hunt to find the way of deleting memories of somebody from the mind.
I was just owndering if I could delete memories of someone in a similar fashion by contacting to a doctor, creating memory map and then the erase operation ... simple... isn't??
But, the question is do we really like getting deleted our sweetest memories of that special person in our life? Isn't a treasure that we should always keep with us and feel the smell whenever required??
Now, in the real world what will you do if you want to forget somebody. Here are some options:
1. Deleting his/her number from mobile phone - I don't think it will really work. You will get it again whenever you want.
2. Delete all places of contact where you can see him - In my opinion "out of sight, out of mind" is the best policy and removing this person from GTalk, Orkut, Facebook, LinkedIn and any other social contact place will really help. Joining new communities over Orkut will be of great help.
3. Divert your attention - few tips are below:
a. Start delving deeper to your project work. Work with full motivation and start thinking to improve the process of your daily routine work.
b. Start listening songs and reading books, it will keep you busy for a while.
c. Start more browsing related to various stuffs like PCs, Laptops, Phones, inventions etc. and Wikipedia of course!!
d. Meet old friends and talk to them. Listen their problems (don't tell yours...) and you will find that your problem is very silly.
e. Do some community work. It will help you as well as society.
And then there will be a day, when you will even forget to think that that person had ever existed in your life ... all traces will be washed itself.... forever ... one more thing, when you will start these things, initially you will feel that these thins are not working and it is reminding you more of that person.. but as soon as you will start gaining interest in these things.. they will changed as your higher priortiy and push back the hard memories ... now, when you will see that number which you have never deleted from your phone.. you will think that calling this person is going to cost you a single buck.. and this person is not worth of it!!

3 Comments:

At 10:01 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't you think that people shouldn't allow to enter in any ones' life when they are meant to walk out ....after Dil Bhar Gya ...[:)]
why there is no punishment for person who is culprit....?
Kya Dil dukhane ki koi saza nhi hoti ...??
Do you think that its so easy to erase the memory of some special person……...some special moments which touched your heart...??
Can we run from ourselves...??
Can we ignore our inner voices..??
Kya it will never feel bad ..??
Your conscience will be fine with your act..??
Its fine to say that time is a greatest healer...but there are still few WOUNDS that never heals and they leaves you.
or its a vast experience/love-game ...
how to win a girl in three months nd how to lose/ditch that girl in a seconds..

(here this you is a person who is a culprit ;)
..not YOU….. [:)]

 
At 12:23 AM, Blogger shadkam77 said...

Shiraz miyan, nice tips. Lemme add my 2 cents:
1. Duniya faani hai, is yaqeen ko dil me bitho - keep saying it to urself - nothing in the world is gonna last ...
2. Try to develop hatred in ur mind for that person - remember his / her -ves, inflate them ... and believe them ... and try to hate him / her ..
3. Keep saying to urself (yes, verbally also), ki to be happy u wont be mohjaat of another person ... mujhe khud khush rahne ke liye kisi aur ki zaroorat nahi hai ... repeat / reiterate to urself ...
4. removing contact from her/him only is not enough ... remove ctc with common friends too .. :( ... in other words, dont do a delete, do a shift delete ...

 
At 3:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Saw this one after a long longtime.. Nice One. :)

Sandy_Upu

 

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